Alright, i am going to copy and paste Wen Yang's latest blog post! (Wen Yang, dont sue me for plagiarism ok?) I am doing that because i kinda agree with him to a certain extent.

"She has strayed and it hurts like hell. A common phrase that some men often use. So how do men actually get out of this blazing train wreck and move on?

Most people say that infidelity is unacceptable. Despite this, we continue hearing stories about how illicit affairs do damage to couples. All it can take is a single moment of forbidden lust to destroy years of trust and deal a huge blow to one’s self esteem. There are many statistics to back this up but there’s one that caught my eye: At least one if five women will cheat on their partners in their lifetime. And if you’re wondering. The rate for men, isn’t too much higher away.

While there isn’t any doubt that a betrayal of such kind can quickly end a relationship no matter how short or long. There are couples that are able to cross this hurdle and make that long and arduous turn around that bend. If you are committed to forgiving your partner and moving on, realising that there are no quick fixes. Chances are, before the both of you actually can reach that “two-peas-in-a-pod” status again, you’ll likely have to open a huge can of worms and work on the weak spots in your relationship that were and all in likelihood, present even before the breach of trust occurred.

1. Dip deep: The plain and simple truth is that the healing process is not a walk in the park. Before any restoration will begin, first thing to do is to inspect what went wrong.

2. Get help: For many couples, the obvious is just under their noses. It just takes another objective perspective to see what it is.

3. Rebuild trust: Trust is essential and it’s something we often take for granted until it’s gone.

4. Letting go: As a victim of your partner’s betrayal, you’re bound to be plagued by thoughts of betrayal. It’s something you can’t run away from.

How to spot a cheating partner:
1. Mutual friends start acting strangely around you.
2. She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
3. She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout programme.
4. She sets up a new email account and doesn’t tell you about it.
5. She starts to delete all incoming and outgoing phone calls from the called ID.
6. She deletes all incoming emails when they used to accumulate.
7. She suddenly wants to try new love-making techniques.
8.Your intuition tells you that something is not right.
9. She goes to the store for groceries and comes home five hours later.

Why women stray:
1. Loneliness - Partners spend more time at work, etc.
2. They allow friendships with “guy friends” to go too far. Constant proximity does stir up emotions a little. And admit it, guys can be jerks. Especially those who eye girls who are already in relationships.
3. Revenge is sweet. Women cheat to give their unfaithful partners a taste of their own medicine."


well, here's my part of the arguement.
Yes, i agree that WOMEN DO STRAY. But it takes 2 hands to clap. Women dont stray unless they're unhappy with something. That means somehow somewhere in the relationship, something went wrong. Because WE are not satisfied in someway( and it does not mean sexually satisfied) . Women need to be given attention to IN ALL WAYS. Emotionally,mentally and physically being there for them and also sexually in the sense that woman wanna feel that they belong to you exclusively, a part of them that they wanna share with their partners. I believe if any of those elements is lacking, women would go fishing for it in some other men. So how do we settle this problem? Who should we side on now if we are given the situation where the woman DOES talk to the man bout her needs and her wants but the guy just doesnt understand and doesnt give it to her and she's still unsatisfied? Or given that they are worlds apart and the guy cant be with her 24/7?Would it be wrong if she goes in search for her own happiness?

I do stand for girls because we NEED ATTENTION. Every woman need to feel complete.Its a girl thing. Guys are more to the "heck-care" side, meaning that they're not so picky when it comes to those elements mentioned in the above. Girls are more sensitive by nature and they want the relationship to be perfect,they wanna feel complete. Thats why when one the of the elements is missing, they will search for the missing part to feel complete.It is just like you studying for your A levels, you cant do well for your prelims, and you current tutor is not fulfilling your dreams and your wants.Therefore you go in search for another tutor in the mean time. Its not like totally wrong right?

And thus, men should also pay attention to their ladies and make sure that they can handle them as well as their workload etc.etc. So for men, if you cant do it, DONT find yourself a woman because you wont be able to handle her.

And after all that i've said, i think that if women are unhappy with their relationship, they should just move on.



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